We Won't Always Get the Answers We Are Looking For

Life can throw us curve balls, heartbreak, and a million other things.

As hard as we may try to get answers from that person, hit replay, and create scenarios in our head out of desperation to find answers, sometimes, we won’t ever get the answers we are so badly seeking.

We have to come to terms with that.

We have to move from why to acceptance.

More often than not, it says more about the other person than it does about you.

So while it’s important to reflect on how you showed up, it’s just as important that you don’t get lost in the process, gaslight yourself, or blame yourself for the outcome.

Sometimes people can’t speak their truth, or own what is going on for them, so they hide away, ignore, or ghost. Not everyone is on the same journey or has the self-awareness.

Show yourself some love. Pick yourself up, and keep moving forward.